When my son was born, I swore I would not be one of those people who stopped taking care of myself on maternity leave. Yes, having a newborn is exhausting, but surely one can find time to shower, no? And I patted myself on the back that every day on my leave, I managed to shower, get dressed AND put on make-up. Hell, I was even doing my nails and getting my hair cut somewhat regularly.
For me, the wheels came off the bus gradually and hit a climax when my son was somewhere between 15 and 18 months old. Oh, I still showered every day and got dressed (going to work sort of requires that), but I began to realize that a lot of other things dropped off. I wasn't doing my nails anymore. Making appointments for my hair stylist seemed too time-consuming. Any sort of skin regiment had gone out the window. I hadn't exercised in any capacity. I put on some weight. I didn't feel like going clothes shopping, even when I really needed pants that fit better. It all just seemed like too much effort.
And maybe it was. But that I wasn't doing all those things bothered me just the same. All those things equated "taking care of me", which you know, is still important, even when you're taking care of a little person or people. You can lose yourself in motherhood a little bit (or a lot bit) and if that bothers you, you should take time for yourself now and again. Slowly, I've been trying to reintroduce certain "me" things back into my lifestyle.
So, for a pick-me-up, Duross and Langel, at 117 S. 13th Street, is the perfect place. With a host of soaps, facial scrubs and other bath goods, Duross and Langel is sure to have something to perk your spirits up. The owners make most of the products themselves and you can read about their views on "natural" products here.
And just in case you're feeling guilty for getting something for yourself, they usually have an assortment of bath toys and baby bath products. The store layout is even wide enough to be considered stroller-friendly.